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Profession of Faith

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by Shawn Image by A Perfect Heart via Flickr S ince my de-conversion there is one statement from believers that irritates me time and time again. We have all heard it, it is the common fall back for just about every argument against Christianity. Every time I have argued the plagiarism, absurdities, contradictions, lies, cruelty and intolerance of the Bible, this statement, or something similar, invariably gets thrown in my face: “You just have to have faith”. Faith in what I ask. Define it. Describe it. I have faith. I have no shortage of faith, in fact, I have faith in spades. I have faith that through science we will be able to help the blind see, the mute speak, the deaf hear and the paralyzed to walk again. I have faith that if I do the right things, lead a good life and help my fellow man that I will live on, beyond my years, in the memory of my community, my children and my family. I have faith that if there is an afterlife that it is for us all, that it is something that no o...

Look Out For Those Lookouts

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By Carl S Image by Gary Henderson via Flickr M y wife tells me that I think too much, to which I might point out that I’m just compensating for all those who refuse to think. For example, she watches those TV nature shows with animals in their native habitats . These shows aggravate me. I want to watch animals, but they keep interrupting by showing the faces of narrators or cameramen. Also, some insist on giving the animals names. I’ve watched gatherings of geese, ducks, turkeys, etc, and notice how at least one of them is assigned as lookout. So, I have my own commentary that ties into thinking too much, and here’s how it goes. “Harold” is lookout. He might not be the brightest or wisest, but it’s his turn. It’s a lot of responsibility, so he’s hyper-alert, stressed. Now if Harold has eaten the wrong grass, has had a hard previous night, and is super vigilant, he just might see things that aren’t there, sound the alarm, and everyone scatters. When all are scattering, doubt is not a ...

A Believer's Last Prayer

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by JezuzFree Image by derpunk via Flickr I 'd like to share with you the last prayer I uttered as a Christian a few weeks ago. After 28 years of being a Christian, I'm now a very happy Atheist. This morning, Lord, I come before You A Holy Soldier at Your feet It is I, Nobody Special A Jar of Clay that You complete I’ve lived my life as a Believer Extolled Your virtues, praised Your name A Demon Hunter, Holy Soldier Saved by Grace, my only claim I’ve lived by faith, my Creed persistent A Living Sacrifice for You But where’s the proof? It’s nonexistent Imaginary will just not due An Ultimatum is before me Set by me by my free will The Crucified or rationality I want real truth to set me free My mind’s made up, I choose You not It’s Evanescence of the faith At Six Feet Deep I’ll simply rot The soul’s not Payable On Death I will not cry for Your Deliverance When my time comes As I Lay Dying Will love my neighbor and Die Happy Will c...

Flame War

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By Astreja I work in a large metropolitan hospital . Every day, thousands of people come and go -- Doctors, nurses, secretaries, housekeeping staff, maintenance... Police, paramedics, pharmacy technicians... Hundreds of delivery vehicles, dropping off everything from paper towels to transplant organs... And, of course, the patients and their families and friends. This is a good place to work, but at the same time there's a bittersweet mood in the hallways. People come here because they need help for illness or injury. My daughter and I have both been patients here, as have many people that we know. On the way to the bus one day, I took a moment to really look at the people in the hallway. I don't know who they are, or what they believe; but I'm going to assume that they're essentially decent, caring individuals. Just like the people outside the hospital: My bus driver ; the clerk at the convenience store ; a man and woman waiting for the "Walk" sign at...

The Story of Suzie

by The Thinking Atheist

Mr. Deity and the Really Unique Gift

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I'm Not Ready to Make Nice

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By Mriana Image by Untitled blue via Flickr "And how in the world Can the words that I said Send somebody so over the edge That they'd write me a letter Saying that I better shut up and sing Or my life will be over." T hat is basically the response I got from a long time friend that I thought I could trust or who I thought was a friend that I could trust, but, and I hope I am wrong, apparently there were conditions to that friendship. Before it was over she was telling me what I could not say, what I should write, and eventually, when I asked her two honest questions, she gave me what was, in my opinion, a trained response. It really was like I had threaten her beliefs and I could not believe she was a person who would feel insecure about her beliefs when someone expresses a different view, but I guess I was wrong. The words to the song ring so true, especially when it comes to the idea that one can just get over it and accept “true religion” as opposed to what my rela...

Their eyes were holden that they should not know him

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by Doc Mike According to the New Testament , Jesus ' closest friends didn't recognize him after the resurrection. John tells us (in 20:14) that Mary Magdalene , a woman Jesus had a questionable past with, looked right at him but didn't know who he was. In Mark 16:12, two of Jesus' disciples didn't recognize him because he "appeared in another form." And according to Luke 24:16, their eyes were "holden" so they wouldn't know him. Assuming there was ever a historic Jesus and that the Gospels were even loosely based on actual events (which I greatly doubt), I think there is a much simpler explanation. Maybe it wasn't him at all! Maybe the disciples didn't recognize him because it wasn't the same dude! Maybe they wanted so much to believe that he had risen, that they voted in a new Messiah . "Sure, he looks different and walks with a limp, but he knows all the scriptures and what a great story this will make! He rose from the ...

Soul Food for Thought

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by WizenedSage Image via Wikipedia C onsider the matter of the soul . Ask a Christian when the soul enters the body and he may say at conception, or some number of weeks after conception, or at birth. Ask him how he knows this and the only answer he can give is that he read it, someone told him, or “it just makes sense.” Christians have been arguing amongst themselves about this for thousands of years. Ask him how big the soul is and he may answer that it’s microscopic, or fills the whole body, or anything in between. Again, he knows this because he has read it or been told it. Ask him where in the body the soul resides and he may say the heart or that it’s diffused throughout the body. Again, he’s read this or been told this. Ask four Christians to define soul and you’ll likely get four different answers. Ask him if a six-month old baptized baby who dies will spend eternity as a six-month old baby and watch him squirm. If it happens that the soul simply doesn’t exist, then Christianit...

A Debased Mind

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By Aaron H i. My name is Aaron. I was a Christian for the better part of 24 years. I was very closed minded, fearful, rejecting of any other walk of life, and judgmental of any and all nouns not associated with my belief system. I also had a false moral compass. But that's not what I want to write about today... Within the past 2 months, I have deconverted, and now consider myself mostly to be an agnostic theist. Yesterday, I got my first phone call from a Christian acquaintance, asking me why I haven't been in contact. I explained my situation to him openly, and honestly. He responded, paraphrasing scripture: "Aaron, God will give you over to a debased mind if you want it. You have free will. But you need to know that you’re being a coward by dropping your weapons." This is me paraphrasing his paraphrasing, just to be clear. COMMENCE RANTING: A "debased" mind? Apparently, when a person decides to reject a man made ideology which is riddled with closed-minde...

Swimming in gray matter

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by Rasputin's love child Image by ladybugbkt via Flickr T hink of the brain as a giant swimming pool. On one end it is deep, the other, shallow. The shallow end has a wading pond for those who cannot swim and detached, but nearby, is the hot bubbling sauna . When a person is introduced to Christianity, they are encouraged to dip their feet in the warm waters of the wading pool. Slowly, they put their legs in a little further until they get used to the temperature of the water. Eventually they immerse themselves in the warm water and become baptized. They are considered "children" in the eyes of god and are encouraged not to drift from the shallows. As they become more confident they may wish to learn more, but the shallows are only warm so they venture out of the pool of thought and into the hot sauna of religious fervor. They are confronted by many others who enjoy the heat of condemnation, the swirling waters of proselytism and the air bubbles of irrational thought. Fo...

GROSSLY IMPROVED FUNCTIONING OF OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM

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by Stephen F. Uhl , Ph.D Image via Wikipedia Y et another blessing of non-theism or atheism for American society could be immense. What if our justice system were so nonreligious that Old Testament type of vengeful punishment of criminals were not necessary? What if judges judged reasonably instead of doing the biblical eye-for-an-eye bit for criminals? Our extremely sick justice system now insists that punishment must fit the crime. Reasoned consequences or responsible restitution is really what should fit the crime, not punishment as such. Taxpayers cough up over $30,000 per year per criminal in prison , violent or not; this exceeds the annual cost of education at most of our excellent universities. We can design and execute really effective probation programs for far less! What if criminals were sentenced according to their ability to be responsible and pay back, make restitution to society in accordance with their offense against society? Violent criminals would stay in jail to pro...

Christian Belief through the Lens of Cognitive Science Part 5.75 of 6

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By Valerie Tarico Image by apesara via Flickr. "Change... We don't like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn't is lying." Change Happens The most useful piece of learning for the uses of life is to unlearn what is untrue. – Antisthenes M y parents, as I’ve said before, were three for six in terms of producing believing children. All of us accepted Jesus as our personal savior. We all entered the “age of accountability” as born-again Evangelicals. But that’s not where we ended up. For each of the three who lost faith, the path was different: One came to see the shame of his homosexuality, not as a personal failing but as a failing of our moral ancestors – which then exposed the host of other moral failings in the Bible. Another was confronted by a small child’s cancer which unearthed a mother lode of buried questions about God’s beneficence...

Who Shares the Blame?

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by Wizened Sage Image by evelynishere via Flickr T he father of an 11-year old girl, who died in 2008 of undiagnosed diabetes, went to trial in Wisconsin . This man and his wife believed that prayer would cure their gravely ill daughter, even after she became too weak to walk, speak, eat, or drink. Dale Neuman told police he believed God would heal his daughter, Madeline, right up until she stopped breathing. Police also said that Neuman “professed to believe God was going to bring Madeline back to life.” Madeline Neuman died because of the false claims of the Bible, but she is only one of millions. Dale Neuman was found guilty of second-degree reckless homicide for praying instead of seeking medical help for his daughter. While I believe he should have been tried, there is another side of me which sympathizes with Mr. Neuman. He is, after all, a victim too. He was scammed, probably since childhood, and now he’s suffering for it. Frankly, I am a bit surprised that this doesn’t happen...

Are We a Hateful Bunch?

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by Neal Stone Image by Akbar Simonse (busy) via Flickr I n my last post we had a Christian show up (tlig_org) who posted the usual Christian stuff then he got blasted by me and a few others from this site. He tried to challenge my claim that my life is better by pointing out hateful and angry sounding comments I made. We are not a bunch of angry, bitter and hateful people here. In fact I have never felt so much support, friendship and understanding as I have gotten from the people who post at this site. If I were to run into a church and announce I didn't believe in their god, I can assure you I would get anything but love and understanding. I have seen my own family treated bad by church ushers because they were living in sin. The irony is the church preached they needed to get right with god, then drove them away when they showed up to do just that. Want to see hateful comments? Read the Bible. How many times were people ordered murdered by God's people? Women raped ...

I can honestly say I hate religion

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by Cesar Image via Wikipedia T here aren't many things in this world that I hate but I can honestly say I hate religion. Religion is a cancer, a plaque on the human mind. Humanity is capable of such great things but it's a shame that things such as religion, greed and politics hold us back. So here goes my little rant, I hope this finds its way onto a person's monitor who is looking for some reason to drop religion but just can't seem to find one. So here it goes, my basic reasons why religion is bullshit. 1) Most of the world's religions came about in a time of great ignorance. Forget everything you know and put yourself in the shoes of someone 2000 years ago. No Internet, no TV, no information. How can people who couldn't explain why it rained, why you got sick or why the sun came up everyday possibly explain how the entire universe was created? They couldn't! They were people like me and you but with A LOT less information about the world we live in. Put ...

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